Beyond good intentions

I came across this interesting website, Beyond Good Intentions, that highlights several issues on international aid and discusses the effectiveness of disaster relief.


http://www.beyondgoodintentions.com/index.php

Daniel Goleman's view on compassion

Daniel Goleman's:
"Sometimes, all you have to do is to focus on observing other people, empathizing with their situations and helping them in whatever small ways you can."

"focusing on self vs focusing on others"

Busy Wing

Busy Wing but she's enjoying at this moment...

Note that it's only this moment...i'm not sure about the future..HAHAHA. =)

Many many pretty Wings!!! ^_^

I can't help to be BHB~ hahahaha I attended wedding dinner with yew thong on 11th Jan at Grand Copthorne Waterfront. We spent 45mins to find the hotel's carpark, all thanks to the GPS !

I bought the the dress below specially for this wedding dinner. I think it's a sweet dress.

Did some funny faces during the wedding dinner! hahahaha! sweet! ^_^

My eyes are big here~~

Photos again only my way home!!!! =))

Romantic Dreams

I think I have all sorts of unrealistic dreams floating in my mind.

1. Serenade a love song to me "live" like that below :


2. Go iceskating with me. (even if you don't know how to skate, I can teach you. ^_^)

3. Give me a big big big bouquet of roses.

4. Play an instrument and sing to me at the same time.

5. Sit in cablecar with me.

6. See fireworks with me.

7. Spend a day in a theme park, sitting through all the adventurous rides together.

8. Walk in the snow together.

9. Get to see how nervous you get while preparing an event for me.

10. Prepare a 3-course meal for me.

I'm still waiting for these to happen...

Happy New Year

Recap Wish List for 2010

1. Squeeze into 2nd upper Honors class by end of 2010 (failed to do so...I'm 0.21 away from it)
2. Con't to date with yew, maintain our relationship. (as far as I know, we are still together even though we have some small arguements here and there)
3. Go overseas with yew. (Yup, 2010 we went to penang, cameron highland and malacca)
(Thanks smelly for pointing our tt i missed my point 4 & 5. and ZR, since i missed my point 4 & 5, that means i only had 7 for 2010...)
4. Be more observant, independent and meticulous (not that I know of...Some time i feel like killing myself for being insensitive to my friends around me.)
5. Be thrifty. So this year, I shall not have any wish list for my materialistic obsession (My bank is in deficit)
6. Continue with my Japanese Advance in JCS and score well. (I stopped half way...I shall continue when I'm free)
7. JLPT 3 Distinction (Same as point 6)
8. Earn more money for my expenses and school fees (not really..)
9. Stay Happy and Healthy. (I'm still healthy and happy!!! =)))

As you can see, I have more red than green, which means I didn't really do well in 2010. Sad. I shall work hard in 2011.

2011 New Year Resolutions

1. Get my Class 3 Driving License before June.

2. Improve my fitness by running every week. I shall be a healthy gal!

3. Improve work performance...like yew or shu yi...(they are my idols!) Just do your work, gal.

4. Spent more quality time with my friends and family. Honestly speaking, I think that spending time with friends is much better as I can feel the presence of my past self, especially meet up with 8PG or Tri-olio or JC sisters.

5. Be myself. I shall be nice to myself listen to what I really want.